Thursday, November 6, 2008

Self Confidence


How much do you like yourself? How do you act on everything? Do you get easily conscious? Do you pity yourself when others don't like you? Do you hate other people when they discriminate you? Do you lose hope easily when things go wrong? Can you make decisions of your own? And how much do you love yourself? By just answering these questions, you can easily determined if you have this what we called “Self Confidence”.

A person who ‘LIKE’ themselves tend to have more confidence and obviously have a higher sense of self esteem. They also tend to be more successful. So how do you like yourself - especially when it is so easy to find fault?

One of the first things to do is get in the right frame of mind. Adopt a more positive outlook on life. Look at the things you DO have, not what you don’t have. Have gratitude. Never look down yourself for we do have our own BEST. Never compare yourself to others, because we are unique in every way. Do things with positive energy to increase the possibility of a successful result.

Even though some things might not be successful as what we always wanted, but still never get discouraged. That's not the end of all the challenges in life. Move on, and be strong. Never lose hope and continue on doing things. And accept all your faults. Remember, the most effective way to improve oneself is to admit his/her mistake. But, never regret or pity yourself, just LEARN from it.

Self Confidence is very important. One cannot do his/her things successful without this. She/he cannot decide easily. Having a big respect to your own abilities enables you to do MORE what you think you can only do. Men and Women who have Self Confidence are more successful than those who don't. Remember, we are the only one who can make our destiny to be more successful, and Self Confidence will truly help us.

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